What is on-line dating?
Online dating is probably the safest way to meet new people. It removes any concerns of giving out personal details to people you have only just met and you can ask the questions that you may perhaps feel embarrassed to ask face to face.
So who's out there?
Whether you're looking for him or for her or even if you haven't quite yet decided, searching for people on-line is really quite simple AND SAFE!. Choose our
simple search to get the broadest range of results or
advanced search if you know just what you're looking for. Which ever search method you use its FREE!
They look nice, what do I do now?
Ok so you start looking fhim or fher and you spot someone you like the look of, you read their profile and seem to have quite a few things in common, so what do you do now? Before you start booking your wedding venue and thinking about the guest list, you might want just want to check if there's someone else who might live up to your requirements. So add your selections to your personal favourites,
'People I Like' to view later which is still FREE as long as you are registered.
Registration
Even if you are not quite sure whether this is
'on-line dating thing' is for you or not and your not too keen on parting with some money yet, then register, add your details and a nice looking picture and see what happens. All of this is free and only takes a few minutes and a couple of taps on the keyboard. By registering you will be able to add people to your personal favourites list, edit your details and search criteria. Plus if you choose to include yourself in
'ffselect' you will have the opportunity to win some great prizes and have a bit of fun.
The process is very simple. Select
Join, fill in your details and either add a picture of yourself now or later, then choose a password that you can remember and press submit. Your e-mail address and password will be your way of signing-in on when you visit the site. If you add a photo they will need to be checked before going live on the site just in-case the contain anything inappropriate, this could take a day or two at the most.
An e-mail will be sent to you with your details and your unique ID. This will be your initials and 4 digits. Because the ID is so simple to remember it means you can give it to people you meet so they can check out your profile.
Unique ID
If you want to give someone your Unique fhimfher ID or meet someone who gives you one then go to the fhimfher website, www.fhimfher.com and type it straight into the website address after the .com (and use a forward slash), for example www.fhimfher.com/(enter unique id) so it will look something like this
www.fhimfher.com/pt1234
This will display their profile instantly. Now you can send them a message and get to know them a little better.
Your personal protective parents
Because the fhimfher unique id is so simple to remember you will be able to give it out to people you meet in the real world (along with the site address www.fhimfher.com) and not have to worry about giving out personal contact details. That way you can communicate via us rather than having to change your mobile number, move house or invest in cosmetic surgery just to stop that weirdo you gave your number to the other night from constantly harassing you.
Even if you decide to eventually give someone a few more personal details or arrange a meeting we advise the following:
- Never give your home address, email address or telephone number to a stranger.
- Always arrange to meet in a very public place, i.e. a Pub or Restaurant. Never invite a stranger to your home.
- Always tell someone else where you are going and approximately what time you will be back home.
- Above all use your common sense, if you are unsure about meeting someone then don't, your instincts are usually right.
For more information please read our
safety guidelines
Does it cost anything to join?
You can register and add your profile and photo for FREE and search fhimfher.com for FREE, only when you decide you want to contact another member or read or reply to another member's message will you need to upgrade to Full Membership.
As a Full Member you will then be able to send unlimited messages to as many other members as you wish, read their replys or initial messages, qualify for the opportunity to benefit from your
'ffselect' status and receive invites to some great events and even get discounts on various things.
Full Membership costs are as follows (prices are in GBP):
- 3 day trial £2.99
- 1 week £3.99
- 1 month £9.99
- 2 months £15.99
I have a Voucher where do I stick it?
Every now again we will be letting our staff out to mingle with the public, we will of course be putting them on a rigorous training course of social interaction first. Upon there release they will be attending and organising events to get people connected. They may issue vouchers for free membership, entitling people for a months free membership. Keep checking the events diary for further details and some embarrassing pictures.
If you do have a voucher then go to
Join and enter the voucher code, once you have completed the registration process.
Charity Mate? I don't like to talk about that!
'When this website was set up I wanted to make sure that people had fun and really felt good about the whole experience. I decided, therefore, to donate up to 5% of each membership fee to UNICEF every month. Not only do I believe that this is a great charity but will hopefully make everyone feel that the money they spend at fhimfher.com is not wasted even if they don't meet the person of their dreams'.
Paul Trevorrow - Managing Director
Will my card be automatically re-billed?
No, unlike some other sites, we will
never automatically re-bill your card. For your peace of mind your card will be billed
once only for your subscription, you will then revert back to only being able to use the standard features of the site once your paid membership period has expired.
You can purchase another full membership at any time by simply signing-in to your account and clicking
upgrade / extend membership.
Where are you based?
Please see our
contact us page.
